I didn’t listen to Vashi uncle and I totally don’t want to listen to him again but guess how it turned out the first time .. I cannot afford for it to turn out even worse this time .. I just have to pull myself through this and hopefully it will get ok 

At work I focus on work and not on relationships 

At home also if I could focus on work rather than relationships it will work out but it’s hard . I just have to learn to sort out the emotional baggage